Five Reasons Men Do Not Want Sex

There are five reasons men do not want sex. It is a common saying women have a headache or simply are too tired.

However, there are many men avoiding sex for some serious reasons.


That happens if they find sex boring and they don't want to have it. Or, it might be they are not able to.

And when do they like it? It is, of course, when they are attracted to a woman.


In sex you need a harmony. Not a sexual discrepancy.


It is just logical those having arguments and sexual imbalance will try to avoid any sexual contact.

If this is the case a man is most likely having extra marital sexual encounters to satisfy his own needs.


One of the other reasons may be he is not attracted to his current partner any more or some  negative experiences from his childhood.


Psychological Issues


These may have a root in sexual dysfunction; either physical or psychological.  Problems with erection are often more psychological. This is mainly in cases where erections are normal during sleep, morning wood or masturbation, however, after vaginal penetration erection is lost.


After a single occurrence a man starts to observe himself just causing further failure.


To put a nail in the coffin there are 'special women' making sure it will keep happening forever.

They achieve it with telling her partner he must have another one or threatening him with divorce.


Then she comments on poor quality of his erection. Man like this, after a short period of time, is loosing all of his confidence, starts to have more problems and it ends in a complete avoidance of having sex.


Bored with Partner


Sex with the same partner 'kills' many. It just becomes a stereotype, same thing over and over again.

It is possible to ignore it for a while and put up the resistance. Fantasizing and using the most elaborate imagination is of little help.

It becomes boring and just another mandatory requirement of marriage.


Physical issues


Men, especially middle aged may have many physical problems associated with erection and sexual activities. And many are not willing to go to a doctor - at all.


One of the reasons can be lower level of testosterone or higher levels of prolactin due to increased stress.

This is, of course, if we do not take in an account the negative side effects of many medications which make the situation even worse.


A different sexual orientation


There are also men not interested in a heterosexual relationship. A contact with a woman does not mean anything to them.


That is just typical for homosexual men and some of the fetishist, paedophiles, transvestite's.

And there are also man who satisfy themselves exclusively  with masturbation only.


And there may be more than five reasons men do not want sex. You might tell us about it.

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