Have sex

Should we have sex often even if we don not feel like that? Making love is not a great art as one would imagine. At least on paper.

Is it good to plan sex? Some experts advice to have it on a regular bases.

Do not expect it to be as raunchy as it was for the first time. As everything else partners will eventually get used to each other and sex will lose its magic.

If anyone will tell you otherwise he or she must be crazy. However, it is not a reason for feeling bad about it.

A person wanting the same level of excitement will eventually find a new partner within a year or two.

How many times we should have sex? As long we know there is no common rule about it, all is fine.

We all have different feelings and requirements. To some it is good to enjoy it on a daily bases while for others 'never' is a better description.

Problem arises when there is a significant difference between two partners when it comes to libido.


It is difficult to have good sex when you have lost your job or something bad just happened in your family.

There are also numerous couples living sexless life. They have usually low self esteem. Luckily these are more of an exception than normal.


Sexuality is here to make our connection and partnership stronger. To build a bond.  No one should attempt to get rid of it.

Being together for twenty years or so is not exactly something to help the excitement. However erotic fulfilment will replace it as long we are in a good relationship.


If you are together for several years it is not a good idea to wait till you get sexual cravings.

Just do it.

Similar as you do with sports. After you finish you will feel good.


The myth men want sex more often than women is not always true. Nowadays women are more open on the subject of sex and they are willing to discuss sexual questions as never before.


Yes, to participate in it is an important part of a good relationship. You do not have to make it as in movies or magazines. Learn to enjoy it instead.


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