Ideal Man Does Not Exist.
Create him.

You can wait for an ideal man till the day you'll die. Better than looking is creating one. Of course, you cannot change him completely and at once. But you can get him at least to get rid of variety of ugly habits which would otherwise sooner or later drive you crazy.

You can even change how will your man perceive himself. If e.g. one thinks of himself as a clumsy person, by constantly hearing he is fully hands on he will change his opinion and it will show. As always good communication is the key to any success.

So what are the key ingredients to make that change?



Compliment his better side. That will help him to achieve his goals and targets much faster. He will know he is on the right track. Make sure you are completely honest in this regard. Men love compliments from women, especially from his own.



Just listen to him what he has to say. Ask questions but only when he is not talking.

This way you don't need to worry if you tell him something interesting or not. Let him do the work.


Show interest

By doing so you will get to know him better.  It is not necessary to kill him with endless questions. Observe his posture and face and listen to what he has to say. This way you will know him much better. Knowing your partner is one of the most important things in any relationship.


Never have the last word 

Swallow the words you still feel to add.

Tell him how you loved talking to him and let him finish the conversation.


And be honest

Do not change your behaviour.  In other words do not pretend. Be yourself. Try not to put yourself above him. Do not show off. Just listen.


Ideal man does not exist. Follow your feminine side and create one.

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