Premature Ejaculation

by Khalid
(Taiwan)

Really I am so worried all the time because whenever I masturbate I ejaculate early within two minutes am afraid that I will not satisfy my wife. Please help me

Reply:

Premature ejaculation (PE) may have many causes. It is very common especially among young teenagers or people not having regular sex.

It requires some experimentation and trying to implement various methods. That, of course, means regular sex and quite often.

Premature ejaculation is very common and it depends on the partner as well. Your wife (or a future partner) has to know that and do her best to adjust. It takes time, think of it as learning. Same as you had to learn everything in your life applies to sex. Nothing happens immediately only by an accident.

As you will grow older the sensitivity of your penis will be decreasing. And you will last longer by age and also experience.

You can try some desensitizing creams. Condom makes contact less sensitive as well.

Also, for women it may take very different times to orgasm. While some can orgasm within few minutes there are those who can never have an orgasm even during masturbation.
So you can see the issue is more complex and it requires personal approach.

If you will have a new partner, all the requirements will change with it. What was good or great it may be not satisfactory at all. We have to constantly adjust to new circumstances. That is life. Not simple.

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